i know that this won't come out the way i want it to, but please know that i mean no disrespect and a just trying to save myself from making the same mistake as others have made... disclaimer aside
how can i talk about my wedding and stuff w/o offending. is it talk of weddings in general or is it talking to folk specifically? and is does it matter that when i say "marry" or "wedding" that in my mind i know someday (hopefully soon) you will be able to do it in a legal and not just symbolic way. i ask because i can see me being in some of these situations and i can even picture talking to you, phineas, about "marriage" (not super likely, but possible) i guess that's my question... how can i talk about it without offending (i don't like to be exclusive of anyone)
ignorant
Date: 2003-09-04 01:08 pm (UTC)how can i talk about my wedding and stuff w/o offending. is it talk of weddings in general or is it talking to folk specifically? and is does it matter that when i say "marry" or "wedding" that in my mind i know someday (hopefully soon) you will be able to do it in a legal and not just symbolic way. i ask because i can see me being in some of these situations and i can even picture talking to you, phineas, about "marriage" (not super likely, but possible) i guess that's my question... how can i talk about it without offending (i don't like to be exclusive of anyone)