hm, so the request is ok even though it would not really be ok to comply with it? i don't see that... i think as a minister, she shouldn't be asking me to do things that i shouldn't be doing, ya know? and i agree that if i said yes, i would have to tell the choir - but that would then stifle their honesty and openness with me and each other. and that would not be the point. i think i'm going to have to tell her no. which should be interesting.
Re: pastoral element
Date: 2003-02-09 11:49 am (UTC)